I cannot believe anyone that has posted what you have posted in the past has the nerve to make a comment like this. Anyone that has read any of your drivel knows you are all into your own elitist realm where you are queen for a day and everyone else who disagrees is a cross-dresser or worse which is most certainly putting people in bins for the sake of it you blithering twit.
My comments are below interspersed in her comment.
Totally agree with you three. (And hey Veronica, saw your blog and
think its great to see other people out there in ‘the sphere’ hehe) The
problem is that as (post) transsexual women our dialogue with each other
has been controlled by outsiders (trans), whom I define by their own
actions as outsiders contrary to the charges usually leveled against me.
I’ve never really been interested in trying to sort people into bins
for its own sake; as far as I’m concerned it’s how you live your life
that tells everything you need to know about a person. That goes for
just about anything too, not just this. And that’s why I point to
Wallinder’s definition as a better dilineator than the trans* beauty
contests that always erupt when people talk about this subject.
First off Aria it is not hehe it is heehee and I am not sure if I should put that down to a Freudian slip, a typo, or a bad attempt at urban slang. Are you a woman as you say below or are you a transsexual woman as you say above. Make the choice Aria.
Outsiders are of course anyone that does not follow the Aria mantra of hate, homophobia, and Aria is a transsexual and you are not if you defy me.
I have been on your case for a while because I consider you dangerous and actually deviously evil but the comment "as far as I’m concerned it’s how you live your life
that tells everything you need to know about a person." might require me to supply wading boots to everyone that comes to this blog to get by that total pile of shit from the single most judgmental person I have ever run into. You do not give a rats ass how people live their lives if they disagree with you even minimally. You and your pathetic sycophants will call them names that hurt to the bone because they fail to meet your pathetic and myopic view of what you define transsexual. You have absolutely no idea what Walinder actually said because your mind is so diseased from hate you can only comprehend things that agree with you.
If it grates on your last nerve to be known as anything other than a
woman, that’s a pretty good sign of who you are. If you are happy being
known as a non-woman, that’s a good indicator too. And of course, the
real moment of personal truth is surgery. After surgery you’ll know for
sure, if you had any remaining doubt. And it’s very easy to have doubt
when society and the gay political construct have so many misguided and
negative things to say about us.
Are you physically a woman Aria? So if one is a hemophiliac and unable to have surgery then they cannot be transsexual or a woman in Aria's book?
There will always be negative things said by fringe groups in society but in my entire life I have never met a gay man that that said anything bad about us and in fact many kept an eye on me in NYC to make sure I stayed on the right path to my surgery and encouraged me and always thought of me as a girl and not a gay boy. I realize there are exceptions but lord you make every exception sound like it is Patton leading his tanks into run you over. It just isn't true. Gays and lesbians in general have enough issues of their own and could care less about us which might be your issue because you want them to care.
We internalize these things after awhile and can’t tell them from our
own thoughts. That’s just how human socialization works. And when you
are steeped in these things for so long, it’s not surprising that
people would not have such a good grasp on what transsexualism is.
But of course we have our savior Aria here to save us from these evil doers. Aria knows what a transsexual is just ask her and she will tell you that you are not because she is Aria Queen of the Aria transsexuals or more than likely King, Read Benjamen's book and learn what a transsexual is you bonehead!!!
That’s why I write this blog, to remind people that transgender and
transsexual are polar opposites and to let them know the old chestnuts
from the trans* narratives aren’t the real story. It’s not about who
played with dolls when you were little, or who “felt like a girl” at the
youngest age or anything that turns it into a competition. These
hierarchies are false and need to be replaced with the truth.
You write your blog because you are filled with hate and loathing for yourself and the mistakes you feel you have made in your life and you want to project that pain onto others because misery always enjoys company.
That is your problem Aria. You are the one that thinks it is a competition. I don't know another old timer like me or early transitioner like me that thinks we are any better than anyone else. In point of fact most of us wish everyone could have been lucky and fate had been kind to all our sisters and brothers but we cannot nor could we control that. We made the best of the hand life dealt us and from my time not a lot of kids like me made it out alive.
You are the one making it a competition Aria. There are no two transsexuals that are the same yet you want everyone to be like you. There are differences in transsexuals and therefore there are different categories not one category that is ruled over by the transsexual rules as defined by Aria. There are some common traits but the intensity and onset of those traits are different for every person afflicted with this horrible disease that I would not wish on my worst enemy.
Hierarchies are false but the problem is you have this big issue with certain people that were born transsexual and you feel you need to get back at them somehow so that is why you do what you do.
I have followed your blog long before I got sickened by your continual hate mongering and I know you put down anyone that likes to be girly, pretty, wants to pass, and I could go on. Life is sometimes unfair and in the genetic world there are pretty girls, attractive girls, average girls, plain girls, and ugly girls but they are all still girls or women. The same goes for women born transsexual. I wish I could write a check so everyone could be pretty but it isn't going to happen. You deal the hand you were dealt unless you can afford otherwise and if you are adult about it you make the best of it and don't try and drag others into your misery if it exists.
My guess about you is you consider yourself ugly, feel you don't pass, and have other negative thoughts and want to transfer your pain to others. Welcome to the world of transsexualism because in general most of us had low self esteem, low self confidence, and other issues involved with gender and somehow got though it. You on the other hand want people to be as miserable as you feel which is quite sad.
There is a range of behavior in transsexual children that hasn’t been
studied beyond noticing that it existed. I hope someday professionals
will get past the gay politics and actually help those kids. They are
not “transgender”.
There is no gay politics involved in helping kids today. Childrens Hospital Boston has a wonderful gender clinic for kids under the transgender banner and lord help me they differentiate between those that are not transsexual and those that are. I realize that might burst your bubble of hate but it is true.
I actually agree that some kids are identified as transgendered by idiots when they are not and I did post an item with my concerns so we agree on something possibly.
Benjamin studied a few kids before he wrote his book but was inundated with younger transsexuals in NYC after his book was published. I had multiple friends that had started with him as early as me and guess what they fit in either Type V or Type VI.
Does it give you pleasure feeling superior to everyone? I need to ask that question realizing I will never get an answer but I have never actually run into a megalomaniac.
Until next time Aria.
Liz