I have to admit I find it interesting what the "trans" world finds important. By "trans" I mean "transgender" because in the nightmare world of those of us that were born transsexual life is actually quite a bit simpler.
Early on those truly born transsexual realize what is wrong and I am betting it is something that has been felt by everyone born transsexual for the entire time of mankind. One's sex is innate and part of the very core of all humans because quite simply it is a requirement for the propagation of the species. We need to mate so we can produce progeny and continue the time of mankind.
It is this innate understanding of "wrong sex" that differentiates us from the "transgender" world. We are not interested in playing girl or appearing female as much as we are intent on being female. In the world of today procreation is understood at a disturbing young age but in my time most of us were clueless. I certainly was as I prayed to wake up a girl and practiced being "pregnant". Yes, I actually practice being pregnant because to almost all girls motherhood is important. It is why girls are attracted to dolls and yes it is part of conditioning but to the vast majority of girls it is really very important.
I remember when I met Harry and I desperately begged him to help me be the girl I was. It was one of those surreal moments many of us born that way have. I learned I could be a girl through hormones and a surgery but I also was told I could never have children of my own. Until that moment I truly did not know it was impossible. I was crying because I was happy that I could finally be the "sex" I should have been born but also sad because I could not birth children of my own. It is something that has bothered me deeply my entire life.
I have always felt cheated out of that part of my true self. My first marriage was really because he had a baby daughter that I would be allowed to raise. I ignored the fact I had said no so many times to his marriage proposals that my friends called him the "No Man". In all honesty I figure down deep I knew something was wrong with him but if he was the "devil" and offered me my own child I would have done what I did which was accept that final marriage proposal. In so many ways I might have actually married the "devil" but I had my child and I looked the other way until the truth came out. I was so desperate to raise her I agreed to conditions in my divorce most women would laugh at but I raised my daughter until he took her from me.
The funny thing is he took her and moved back where I grew up and it was why I moved home. I was actually happy in California. I had family that loved me there and friends that knew nothing of the past and a successful business with partners I adored and still do today. In fact I bought out my husband's share so he could move back East because money and him were like water over a waterfall.
I learned then what pathetic little men "transvestites" are and they may change the name to "transgender" but they are and always will be pathetic little men in so many ways. Life for a transvestite is a combination of "dressing up" and waiting to "dress up". Life is about their "gender expression" and has nothing to do with the true core of their being. Most are heterosexual men playing dress up but the funny thing bout a fetish is the fetish is demanding.
There is a reason that addiction and transvestism are very similar. Over time both actually get worse because both provide a waning relief from either the desire to get high or dress up. Both need to "up the ante" with more potent chemicals or more daring escapades en femme. Over time both usually destroy the family unit if one is present.
On Transvestite-Central it is a common occurrence for one of the multitude of bloggers to breathlessly describe a big day out en femme. It might be a day at a baseball game with the "gurls" or the excitement of attending Fantasia in Provincetown Massachusetts which is Fire Island for New England. They describe themselves as "women" and often claim to be a woman in a male body while obsessing over cross-dressers, fellow transvestites, drag queens, womanless beauty pageants, and all things "trans" that increase their chance of being able to express their fetish in public.
They almost universally want more "human rights" for themselves when en femme which usually means less privacy and rights for females of all ages but as men that seems quite logical to them. They universally are incapable of understanding that giving themselves more rights "en femme" means taking rights away from females and is in the opinion of most people morally unacceptable. They refuse to admit they might put females at higher risk because of their "new" rights because in their pathetic minds they cannot equate the inequality and danger of allowing a man "pretending" to be female into spaces where women are vulnerable. They are not vulnerable because they are men but we are but then we do not count when it comes to satisfying their fetish.
They equate the change in intensity of their fetish with what those born transsexual face because it is convenient and gives them a basis for their spurious claim of "we are the same". They comment of the "medical necessity" of SRS for those of us born transsexual while again conveniently omitting the simple fact they have no intention of having complete SRS. They get the quack Psychiatrists to change things so "medical" can mean as little as implants and they see nothing evil about this but it is. They cannot understand how medically necessary SRS is for those born transsexual because they understand the difference but in order to manipulate the "system" it needs to be omitted deliberately.
In my childhood I said the following to my mother constantly. I said, "I am a girl. Why can't you just let me be a girl. I am not hurting anyone". Yes, they were probably the naive musings of a child quite confused over why she was the wrong sex but I said something similar to Dr. Benjamin when I met him for the first time when he told me the process would take time and SRS was at least 4 years away because I was almost 14. I said, "I am a girl. Why can't you help me be a girl right now" I am not hurting anyone". Harry actually wrote a long letter to my mother concerning that comment but he said some things to me in an attempt to explain it.
Well if truth be told men are really attached to their balls and dick and for good reason, it is their pleasure point in life and that is important but as important it is the innate maleness that is defined by it. In my world my innate femaleness is attached to my breasts and vagina and it is why women try and avoid radical mastectomies and often make bad decisions over breast cancer. Could you imagine what a man would do if told his balls and dick needed to be removed because of cancer?
SRS is something men look at and shudder. It is something those of us born transsexual look at an beg for and will do anything required to obtain. A man cannot be given a sex change and be female because they are not innately female they are innately male even if they suffer from a fetish like transvestism. That is why they keep their penis.
Now, these pathetic little men, and they are pathetic, still need to fulfill their fetishistic desires and many decide to live full-time as men pretending to be women. They even claim it as a "transition" but the problem there is "transition" implies going from one place to another and they are in the transit phase. For transsexuals it is preparing for SRS and a life as a female. For them the process stops at "transition" with maybe a little hormone enhancement but will always be innately male and they are okay with that but they are not okay with society looking at them as "men in dresses" so they attempt to change the rules.
The rules they attempt to change involve the definition of female and their "needed" rights as a "man in a dress". They pretend they represent transsexuals and change the Psych guidelines for who qualified under gender identity disorder and change it to gender dysphoria which they now claim includes them because they are not transvestite/cross-dressers but "transgender". They pretend to support the medical necessity of SRS for those of us born transsexual but they do NOT because there is nothing medically necessary in the life of a transvestite which is what 97% of the individuals covered by the term transgender. They use the 3% that are transsexual to obfuscate the fact they are pushing for transvestite rights.
Sadly, it is working in this new world of political correctness where "transsexual" is a bad word and "transgender" is the word of choice for all. They have made it possible for some to change their birth certificates and be designated female even with a penis yet they cannot understand it is just not that simple. One man, Colleen Francis, claims his Therapist told him that he was a lesbian which is odd because lesbians do not have dicks, 5 o'clock shadow, or male pattern baldness but then again lesbians are every heterosexual males ultimate fantasy. Only a man could possibly think a lesbian would want a "girl" with a penis. Only a gay man would think a "straight man" would want to play with their 7 inch neoclit because they are dressing as a woman or have oral sex with them. These simple facts are incontrovertible.
Is it possible to find a man that can accept a pre-operative transsexual as a girl? Yes it is but they do not want to play with your penis or give you a blow job. If they do they are a "tranny chaser" which is basically a gay man trying to fool himself into not accepting the fact he is gay. He is treating you as a gay man and to a transsexual that should be offensive.
So for all you full-time transvestites and want-to-be full-time transvestites life is more complicated than your simplistic look at the world. It really does not matter what you birth certificate says because you have a penis and a penis defines you as male regardless. Even if you weasel your way into women's spaces like Colleen Francis you will still be a pervert in a dress and you may harm kids by taking away their rights to Title IX money but your time will come and your payback is hopefully commensurate with your misdeeds. You have already given every group on the planet the poster asshole for denying "transgender" rights.
The transgender/transvestites of the world are just pathetic little men trying to force their particular fetish/perversion down the throats of society and it might have worked so far but the times they are a changing.
There is an old political saying that you states "cannot legislate against stupid" and in the case of these pathetic little men "they cannot legislate themselves female". As their wigs are pulled off by a wave in the Atlantic Ocean, as their 6-4 inch 270 pound bodies crammed into a miniskirt and 6 inch heels scream, and their 5 o'clock shadow proudly prove they are and always will be men playing girl.
They are pathetic little men playing a game they will never understand because they are insulting every woman on this planet and they cannot see it and never will. You will either be a gay man, a celibate man, or even still function as a man, but you will never be female. You will always be pathetic, little, and worst of all the same misogynistic piece of shit you have always been and you will never, ever be accepted as female by anyone. You will always be the same pathetic little man you have always been.