tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post2197342494141541657..comments2023-04-26T23:19:46.504-04:00Comments on Notes from the T side: Pathetic Little MenElizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931270965200576249noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-73977073675223233722012-10-28T08:06:14.886-04:002012-10-28T08:06:14.886-04:00I hope I haven't offended you Aunty, it was no...I hope I haven't offended you Aunty, it was not my intention and I typically have a great deal of respect for the comments you leave and the sense decorum and wisdom I feel they impart.<br /><br />I understood (I think) what you were getting at and to an extent I agree, life is not "fair".<br /><br />I do not suffer fools, pretenders or their excuses very well. I suspect it is a problem for me and have been trying hard to improve myself.<br /><br />Best to you and yours.Van Burenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10771368775037115526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-31317293666404326192012-10-28T04:14:00.325-04:002012-10-28T04:14:00.325-04:00I forgot my tagline. 9:14 = an old aunty.
I'm...I forgot my tagline. 9:14 = an old aunty.<br /><br />I'm a little younger than Liz and have been post-op and wood-worked happily and successfully most of my adult life.<br /><br />My comments were directed to anon 4:28.<br /><br />Young, short, good skin and with small features gave me a transition experience I can't compare to those who are tall and masculine. OTOH, I know several who have overcame limits possibly as bad as anon 4:28 and have reached a mental place they can dwell.<br /><br />Life is not fair. You can live your life in a pity pit complaining about how unfair it is. Your choice. Can you have all you want? No. Can you have enough to make life seem worth living, 4:28? Maybe. What you write suggests you need therapy. Lots of therapy<br /><br />I'm not a cheerleader. Mind may overcome matter or or matter may beat mind into ignominious defeat. Who are you? What do you want? What are you willing to give up? Can you live with compromise? How much compromise?<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-71847214191014061972012-10-27T05:58:53.496-04:002012-10-27T05:58:53.496-04:00and Anon 4:28; by 26 I was mostly bald, 5'11, ...and Anon 4:28; by 26 I was mostly bald, 5'11, 280lbs, had a tremendous amount of body hair, size 12 feet, big hands, was unemployed, and my family had just disowned me (due to me telling them I was a girl) so I was also pretty homeless. <br /><br />I'm also from a country who's health service does not cover pretty much ANY of the treatment for this.<br /><br />What's your excuse again?<br /><br />What I <i>think</i> anon 9:14 was TRYING to say (even if they picked a poor way of attempting it) is: No-one can make it happen for you and if you NEED it, then not one single part of what you've written will make one iota of difference.Van Burenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10771368775037115526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-79085064942172617042012-10-27T04:22:23.580-04:002012-10-27T04:22:23.580-04:00Interesting anon 9:14, it was not easy??
You'...Interesting anon 9:14, it was not easy??<br /><br />You've spoken of your "friends" but what experience do YOU speak from? Why do you recount the (supposed) difficulties of these "others"? And what relavence did/do you think it would have to this post? (especially coming from an unknown source/entity, just curious?)<br /><br />"fair" is a VERY (mis)interpretable word, similar to "lucky" and "privileged", the grass always LOOKS greener on the other side and I personally consider the concept behind ALL of the above words to be deeply seated in male thought, as to gauge ANY of them; one first has to veiw the world (in the way men typically do but women typically do NOT) with themselves at it's center.<br /><br />Please pick a name.Van Burenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10771368775037115526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-66687985586949233662012-10-26T21:14:06.096-04:002012-10-26T21:14:06.096-04:00I've an acquaintance who's, as I recall, 6...I've an acquaintance who's, as I recall, 6' 7". SRS helped her cope with the limitations of her life, but her life remains very hard. I've another friend who's 6' 3" she has done well. She did have to reduce her weight to about 150 pounds and have electrolysis that took years, but she was blessed with a good face and hairline. Neither received any family support or government assistance of any sort. It was not easy.<br /><br />Life isn't fair.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-18914313013107594742012-10-25T16:28:20.023-04:002012-10-25T16:28:20.023-04:00Well, I agree with all of it, and also feel bad th...Well, I agree with all of it, and also feel bad that because of bad genetic luck and the fact I live in a shitty country that doesn't cover anything, apart from having no family anymore to help me, no friends, and no job to pay for everything, I fall into the category of "6-4 inch 270 pound bodies" and the 5 o'clock shadow... I was thinking ov killing myself out of the frustration of being trapped with no way out apart from a miracle, but then I don't think the neighbours would like a rotting corpse next to them smelling out the block because no one would even notice I stopped breathing for 2 months!! Apart from that, I totally agree, and it's thanks to them out NHS doesn't cover our surgery (they only cover "boob jobs" because the transvestites deemed it the most important thing in HBS representation, and that SRS is only an estetical "if you want it" thing).<br /><br />P.S. I would never even attempt a miniskirt, and with my height which I hate, usually wear flats or very small heels.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-72685505610031243302012-10-23T16:32:47.358-04:002012-10-23T16:32:47.358-04:00Here's a perfect example of pathetic little me...Here's a perfect example of pathetic little men who say dumb crap about intersex people<br />http://youtu.be/XI-3km7Wz-4Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-17330229239826238132012-10-23T09:24:33.232-04:002012-10-23T09:24:33.232-04:00How soon the Tee-Gees forget, they drove Mike Penn...How soon the Tee-Gees forget, they drove Mike Penner to suicide with their cheering him on to do something he wasn't suited or ready for.<br /><br />Yes the blood is on your hands, you people are disgusting and care not for the lives you are ruining. <br /><br />NYF<br /> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-35731498465872856392012-10-22T17:17:40.416-04:002012-10-22T17:17:40.416-04:00Ok Steph, against my better judgement; I’ll bite!...Ok Steph, against my better judgement; I’ll bite!!<br /><br /><i>The people on this blog do all of that by inserting their opinions on people they <b>no</b> nothing about.</i><br /><br />Firstly; it’s “KNOW”.<br />Secondly; it’s got NOTHING to do with “opinion” and with regards to being “trans” and that aspect of these people we apparently know nothing about; do you think none of the people here have met a hundreds of people just like yourself? Deluded, convinced they are or are supposed to be female.<br /><br />Do you not think we’ve watched as the idiots often head off for SRS on a collision course with disaster? Do you not think our compassion has often caused us to do all we can to try and help them find satisfaction contentment with the life they have? even if that is hormonally modified but retaining their birth genitailia?<br /><br /><i>And for the life of me, I can't understand what "nightmare" you could possibly be living because of someone else that you claim are so different from you.</i> <br /><br />You’re DEAD RIGHT! you can’t! you have NO FUCKING IDEA <i>AT ALL!!</i><br /><br /><i>The public in general are much smarter about trans issues than you give them credit for. I do not "pass"(I hate that word) very well, but I've had no problem in the past 7yrs. since I've transitioned. Someone’s opinion of me doesn't matter anyway. The only one that matters to me is my wife of almost 40yrs,</i><br /><br />Three things! ONE! What exactly have you “transitioned” <i>TO</i>? the word “transition” implies you’ve changed or are in the process of changing from one thing to another, so WHAT exactly is it you think you are now? And how exactly do you KNOW you are that thing? What confirms that for you exactly?<br /><br />TWO! I’d like to believe you when you say you don’t care what people think, but! if that is truly the case, the why is it you tow the TG line and are so desperate for “rights”, accommodations, and acceptance?<br /><br />Three; YES! They are, and THAT is a problem for TS’s<br /><br />I wish neither you nor anyone else ANY malice or difficulty, but you are NOT the same as me. And as for live and let live, I agree, and you and your ilk are fucking up the lives of me and mine, which is why we get pissed off here.<br /><br />I personally don't think myself any better than ANYONE! but I certainly ain't the same as you.Van Burenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10771368775037115526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-47721438165117167272012-10-22T11:08:00.437-04:002012-10-22T11:08:00.437-04:00I don't encourage anyone to do anything in THE...I don't encourage anyone to do anything in THEIR life. Nor do I discourage. I don't make assumptions about others, I let people live their own lives. The people on this blog do all of that by inserting their opinions on people they no nothing about. And for the life of me, I can't understand what "nightmare" you could possibly be living because of someone else that you claim are so different from you. I agree that there are certain men and women that exercise poor judgement when in public and I believe everyone that sees them knows what and who they are. The public in general are much smarter about trans issues than you give them credit for. I do not "pass"(I hate that word) very well, but I've had no problem in the past 7yrs. since I've transitioned. Someones opinion of me doesn't matter anyway. The only one that matters to me is my wife of almost 40yrs, and she sees, and says, that I'm a much better person than I was before transitioning. It doesn't matter your age when you say enough is enough and transition. Being happy with your life comes at different times in everyone's life. Mine just came later in life. <br />Are you a better person and happier since you transitioned? Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02903540438864171068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-34842035739013077442012-10-22T02:21:04.614-04:002012-10-22T02:21:04.614-04:00Let me see just what you are actually saying here ...Let me see just what you are actually saying here Stephanie. Encouraging 50 year old men to screw up their lives and those of their wives and children through lies told not only to their families but also to themselves through some fantasy like delusion, is "positive" and "ladylike" While pointing out the fact that it is a lie and is delusional is somehow "Negative" and "unladylike" Clearly you have no concept of how downright stupid you sound.<br />I've seen hundreds like you over the years Stephanie and I pity each and everyone of you because of the lies you tell each other and the general public, real transsexuals and women have to endure a pure nightmare.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-65017613636646887002012-10-21T22:12:34.127-04:002012-10-21T22:12:34.127-04:00This post wouldn't bother the Tee-Gees if it w...This post wouldn't bother the Tee-Gees if it wasn't true.<br /><br />Come on guys get a pair and own up to what Elizabeth is saying or walk away and don't come back.<br />Nobody likes a sissy, except another cissy.<br />Isn't that right Autumn? <br /><br />NYFAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-53838055761606809442012-10-21T21:43:15.904-04:002012-10-21T21:43:15.904-04:00Ah yes. Always calling people names and making uni...Ah yes. Always calling people names and making uninformed diagnostic proclamations about people you know nothing about makes you so "ladylike". I rest my case.<br />Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02903540438864171068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-66423923196200295082012-10-20T23:01:24.081-04:002012-10-20T23:01:24.081-04:00Ah, "not very ladylike", the transvestit...Ah, "not very ladylike", the transvestite's favorite cudgel.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-70842198636589530642012-10-19T16:44:49.478-04:002012-10-19T16:44:49.478-04:00and just on cue, here comes another from the tee-g...and just on cue, here comes another from the tee-gee parade (Stephanie) to engage in their mansplainin' and again engaging in the very male activity of telling peeps how to act and think. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-29304010432292113062012-10-19T14:30:53.251-04:002012-10-19T14:30:53.251-04:00Steph,
Anyone
Is a VERY broad and interpretable ...Steph,<br /><br /><i>Anyone</i><br /><br />Is a VERY broad and interpretable word, I suspect I'm "different" to Liz in a multitude of ways (no two women are alike or live exactly the same life) and I don't think she's ever had a negative word about me (that I know of, yet, at least not publically).<br /><br />I think what you mean by your comment is:<br /><br /><i>DISLIKE</i> (hate is a VERY strong word IMO) for anyone who LIES about being and living life as a woman and uses the transsexual medical condition to try and justify themselves as female when they clearly or NOT and have NO intention of being.<br /><br />and as for her life experiences making he more tolerant of that and more compassionate to those people, I can't say I agree with you but then, that is just me; I've SEEN and I KNOW the the (12/14/18/20 year old girls) who's lives you all fuck up by being the lying sacks of shit you all are.<br />Van Burenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10771368775037115526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-3875193353796498582012-10-19T11:46:57.343-04:002012-10-19T11:46:57.343-04:00Your hate of anyone you deem different than you is...Your hate of anyone you deem different than you is not very ladylike. One would think that the many years of diversity you have seen in your life would cause you to understand that being different than you doesn't mean an attack on you. Your grudge against TV's should be channeled only to the one who hurt you, not the entire spectrum of transgendered people.<br /><br />Apparently there is nothing positive in your life. Your posts are almost always negative, attacking people for being different. That doesn't paint a pretty picture of you.<br /><br />StephanieStephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02903540438864171068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-23172932266326209722012-10-19T02:42:28.398-04:002012-10-19T02:42:28.398-04:00Ah, first husband a TV. Now I understand your stay...Ah, first husband a TV. Now I understand your staying power.<br /><br />Perhaps it's cruel of me, but I am amused when a TV gets carried away with his fantasy and has SRS. Want to be transsexual? You might get your wish...the hard way.<br /><br />- an old auntyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-17558234945249118822012-10-17T20:22:43.736-04:002012-10-17T20:22:43.736-04:00It would not surprise me if these little pathetic ...It would not surprise me if these little pathetic men play the Intersex card as their last resort card that Steve Crecelius and Zoe allen brain do all the time. People are starting to wise up and take notice at these little pathetic men.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com