The truth about the Truth

A short time ago, in a blog not so far, far away...

It is a period of civil war. A rebel
blogger, striking from a not so hidden
blog, has won her first victory
against the evil bullshit empire.

During the battle, the rebel blogger managed
to obtain the secret truth to the Empire's
ultimate weapon, the Bullshit Spreader, a
blogger with enough complete bullshit
to destroy an entire bullshit universe.

Pursued by the Empire's sinister agents,
this novice blogger raced home to her blog,
custodian of the truth about the Truth
that could save her people and restore
sanity to the blog world of bullshit....

Just a little silliness so excuse me for it. I never realized asking a question and telling someone they were a coward for banning open discourse could cause such a total shitstorm.  I was obviously quite wrong.

I was attacked immediately by a small group of confidants of Aria and it must be clear that I never once questioned her life or her narrative or whether she was who and what she says she was but they sure did about me. I gave back what I got and one is supposed to run and hide I gather. I do not back down from bullies any longer and unfortunately for Aria she found that out. Throwing mud is not a game I enjoy and I would have preferred it not happen because I feel people deserve to live their personal fantasy as long as they do not hurt others. Do not throw mud at me unless you want a mudslide back.

What Aria and her cabal attempted was nothing short of TS Profiling. They decide if you are TS or not based on their myopic view of transsexualism and their limited experiences as women after surgery if they have even had surgery.  They will use vile names to discredit you and claim you are a fraud and they of course have this TS bullshit detector and these special senses that know instantly about everything and this transgender detector and they alone are the judges. Most people run because it is quite offensive. I will not run so be forewarned.

First off I never “outed” Aria Blue and in fact I never intended to post anything because I realized Aria was so pathetic and so damaged that even a fool like her engendered some sympathy.  I posted this on December 15^th and really hoped it was over but Aria took it as a sign of weakness. I stated categorically NOTHING would be posted.

On December 28^th I was attacked by Aria in a comment where she attempted to claim I was someone named Arune and here is her comment and my comment that the gloves were off.

There is a complete chronological record of what went on between Aria Blue and the accusations I was gay, a transvestite, not a woman and this was perpetrated by Aria and her followers. I have a sharp tongue and responded.  Susan, of Enough Non-Sense, said it should not have bothered me but her life was not questioned.

Now over time Aria had positioned herself as the Purveyor of Truth about transsexuals and as the perfect true/classic transsexual and the only one that could determine who was and who was not transsexual and anyone that disagreed with Aria was a fraud including me. I foolishly posted some old stuff of mine that clearly proved I certainly knew Benjamin and Granato but on December 8, 2010 Susan of Enough Non-Sense basically attempted to bring that into question with some comments that sort of go hand in hand with the classic, “Have you stopped kicking your dog”, which is a no-win question for the person being questioned. Denial that you ever did such a horrible thing still leaves the initial hint you did or may have and I was upset but Susan insisted I was just mentioned “in passing” but we do have a decidedly different interpretation of the definition of “in passing”.

Aria made comments claiming you define yourself by “how you live your life” and claimed any indecision during transition or for surgery made some poor confused kid or even an adult a transvestite and thus a transgendered fraud or gay man or god knows what else her pee-brain could call them. Of course any friends received dispensation form Aria since they supported Aria.

When she pulled the crap in the above link I took some time to cool off and then on Thursday January 13, 2011 I posted my response and Aria Blue ran for cover. Aria Blue was a fraud and what was posted in no way outed her. Aria was a deadbeat dad or I am required to call her a deadbeat mother and was just as confused as many of those she crucified in the public bile producing forum that was her blog. She had learned her narrative like she accused others of doing and by setting herself up as this know-it-all asshole she lost her right to keep that part of her narrative secret. I fear I let that vicious piece of shit hurt others and should have exposed her earlier.

The irony lost on Aria and her followers is a simple truth. She made a mistake with her daughter and I do hope she rectified it. Her narrative is no better or worse than many transsexuals that have suffered and searched for answers under the pain of being born so different.  Rather than be a beacon of hope that you can beat this horror, despite mistakes, Aria chose to be a Purveyor of Hate disguised as the Truth behind her armored veneer as a warrior fighting the evil transgendered of the world. Aria chose hate over hope.  Aria chose intolerance over tolerance.  Aria became evil and even the good parts of her message became lost.

I do not want to be part of the transgender label but why am I supposed to hate them? Transsexuals are few among many and in the “real” world you need alliances to build a better world for yourself and others.  I may not understand cross dressers or transvestites or gender queer or whatever new fangled name they come up with but I was not raised to hate people and that includes the many that hurt me when I was young or have attempted to hurt me lately but it does not mean I will quietly go into the night. That is just not happening.

What little I posted was the truth and Aria knew it was the truth as did her friends because she seemed to go off the deep end mentally and I was worried about that but I should not have been.  You cannot keep a good rattlesnake down for long.

Now we get to the good parts.

There are interesting dynamics at work in the Aria world.  Aria wrote an email to Leigh Smith and I gather I am running a smear campaign against Aria. That is like the fox charging the Farmer with crimes against humanity for shooting his ass when he was caught with a dead chicken in his mouth and shotgun pellets in his ass. Sorry, the truth is not a smear campaign and besides since when has truth ever bothered Aria Blue? In the strictest terms I am damaging her reputation and good standing but that must be based on the truth of her reputation and good standing which was built on fraud. She earned her disrespect.

I defended myself against personal attacks that were the result of having the temerity to question her position on subjects and yes I said she was an Intellectual Coward which she has proven again and again but I never questioned her being transsexual like she and her cabal did mine. Leigh knows what went on because she witnessed it but when you are Leigh the truth is damned. Everything is clearly documented on my blog if anyone is interested.

There is a tidbit from Leigh about Liz having a lot of TG readers which assumes I actually bother to care who reads it and the implied thought that one should base friendships or readers on the hatred of an asshole like Aria Blue. A mention of CAMH which is supposed to hurt me and of course the crap about me threatening to “out” Aria and publish photos of Aria and just to be sure all parties understand this the photos I have did not come from June Hingle, Cassandra, or any of the parties you are speculating about and there are clear blog posts that state I had no intention of posting them and even after an Aria attempt to paint me as some individual I gather people dislike I did no such thing.

I guess you could ask the question is what I am doing to them any different than what they did to me? I can answer that easily. I am refuting someone and exposing them for hurting people deliberately with lies and innuendo and one of them was me. Let the truth run free and see where it falls. I am not afraid of it but they are.

Should someone that knows factually that a homophobic and hateful minister is himself gay and doing the nasty with a boyfriend feel guilty about exposing him? Of course not. Those who deal in hate need to be stopped. Okay, that is my minimal defense and just to be honest I cannot deny I enjoy watching them swing in the breeze as their own words and deeds hang them.