tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post8507055810562088992..comments2023-04-26T23:19:46.504-04:00Comments on Notes from the T side: What is "transfeminism"? No feminism without transfeminism?Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931270965200576249noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-10800427868758755972012-06-28T13:19:12.075-04:002012-06-28T13:19:12.075-04:00Please do it Elizabeth.
NYFPlease do it Elizabeth. <br /><br />NYFAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-80217907762834482662012-06-28T08:59:47.080-04:002012-06-28T08:59:47.080-04:00Hay Black Swan, You have a lot of nerve telling th...Hay Black Swan, You have a lot of nerve telling those of us who choose to post under handle when you do it yourself. <br />Put your money where your mouth is and post your real name. <br />You give out enough clues as if you want to be found out. So just do it, or would you rather remain the hypocrite you are? <br /><br /><br />Get a life you transvestic freak<br /><br />NYFAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-31896286626105279192012-06-28T07:57:29.083-04:002012-06-28T07:57:29.083-04:00Hi black swan,
I would just like to say that I am ...Hi black swan,<br />I would just like to say that I am a REALLY simple minded country girl (which I'm sure is part of what you were pointing out), and all those big impressive words you used, confused the living shit out of me.<br /><br />I <i>did</i> understand the part where you <i>TRIED</i> to tell me what I can and can't do from a position of anonymity, however I fail to see how you could possibly gauge what I can and can't do, because from where I stand, what I can and can't do would be entirely dependant on who and how many people might be prepared to listen to what I have to say or write from said position; agree with my perspective, and take action or adapt their way of life in some way, to suit it.<br /><br />I think you also have me wrong on another front. I have NO problem what-so-ever accepting how people <b>self</b>-define, however, that does NOT mean I personally always <i>agree</i> with how they would define themselves.<br /><br />That is called free will, every human experiences it and that is not something that can or will <b><i>EVER</i></b> be changed.<br /><br />I do become concerned when how people choose to self-define (and the behaviour exibit), has a negative effect on my life or the lives of others (<i>regardless</i> of the what the issue at hand might be). And when they are inconsiderate and disrespectful of me and others by doing so, they lose any right they <i>MAY</i> once have had to <i>MY</i> respect and consideration.<br /><br />Fair is fair.<br /><br />Finally, I don't know if you might be implying that I am cassandraspeaks? (Sadly, I'm not lying about the simple country girl thing)<br /><br />If so, no, I'm not. I have never met her, nor anyone else you claim you know here. I do have respect for <i>many</i> of the things she's written, as they helped me on a personal level in a time when I was desperately in need of perspective , however, there are others I also respect for the very same reason<br /><br />you can track me down and "out" me all you like, I am not "stealth" (whatever that means) in whatever could be considered my personal life, and so the damage that would do at this point, is miniscule.<br /><br />Finally, thank you very much for reminding me of my place.<br /><br />Best wishes to youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-42882054388179088092012-06-28T00:59:36.029-04:002012-06-28T00:59:36.029-04:00@BlackSwan
I know who CassandraSpeaks is but I do...@BlackSwan<br /><br />I know who CassandraSpeaks is but I do not consort with her. You would be well advised not to threaten me. <br /><br />First and foremost these are just my opinions and I like most people in the world of the blogs have little to no influence on the real world. These are just opinions. It is how I vent.<br /><br />Let me get this right. I have no right to comment on things because I am anonymous yet you can comment as BlackSwan and that is okay. What a complete and total douche-bag you are plus being a total hypocrite.<br /><br />Are you not the same celebrity that has denied she was born transsexual when questioned? Does the production company know you are transsexual for you supposed television series? Stupid question actually because they would have to be deaf, dumb and blind to think otherwise but the the sissy boys you like probably overlook that part.<br /><br />Why would you say something like that about some person like CassandrSpeaks? What kind of lowlife pathetic scumbag jerk are you. Consequences for her. You are the one that started slinging the arrows here BS and I just do not put up with them.<br /><br />You do not know who I am and even if you did it has no consequences for me because I am retired and a widow so who is left to be hurt but me. Bring it on you worthless piece of garbage. <br /><br />I actually dare you to give my name if you have it. I promise you I will post the comment if you get it right but we both know it is all bluster. You have far more to lose than I do so take your bravado and run off because we both know nobody is giving someone like you a regular part in anything because you have no talent unless you count that pathetic 2007 documentary you were a total loser in.<br /><br />I love you little blurb you put in a certain magazine where you called yourself a "supermodel". Wow you are also a runway coach. You are as delusional as the crossdressers and transvestites you support.<br /><br />If you ever threaten me again I will personally bury you and destroy that pathetic little career you think you have. Now, how is that?Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17931270965200576249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-36313958316962289642012-06-27T18:28:03.859-04:002012-06-27T18:28:03.859-04:00@Elizabeth,
My apologies for not responding soon...@Elizabeth, <br /><br />My apologies for not responding sooner, I have to fly out of the country again, this time for six months and will have minimal contact with the internet, working on a TV series as a season regular, but wanted to get back to you has promised. <br /><br />So, before we begin, after a small tangent with newtransitioner, you seem to have difficulty accepting other peoples definition of self, you invalidate others, or a group wanting to define itself, yet feel you have the obtuse (hubris) authority to define others, promoting the stigma apparently, yet take umbrage with anything that doesn't define contiguous to your wishes when in actuality there are obvious dovetails, your recalcitrant, and none of it fits together in pieces so convenient for you to separate in <i>a priori</i> categories of legitimate and not so. You don't get to participate in these political debates unless you have the courage to muster your convictions--for whatever reason you've already lost the battle because you lack the basic courage to remain accountable for what you say. What are you placing on the line here is a mere complaint that has no power. No authority and no cause of action if you persist to sit back on you laurels in complacent obscurity; lame duck. Quack!<br /><br />YOU DO NOT GET TO ENGAGE IN GENDER POLITICS FROM AN ANONYMOUS POSITION, THEN COMPLAIN WHERE THINGS ARE GOING AND EXPECT TO BE TREATED SERIOUSLY. The doctrine of laches applies here. <br /><br />Liability you say? Fear? You and Casandra Speaks must be colaborating. You notice why she is conspicously polite with me. I know who she is, where she lives, and who her husband is. I used to be an investigator (quasi government) in my other life and can find just about anyone. She doesn't throw bombs at me such as you without her ego giving pause to consequenses. She can if she wishes, but she met me, and that's enough for familier civility. Clue in, I know who you are, where you live, or anyone else who so much as visits this blog--if I need to. I'm a bit higher on the food chain than you think dear. Not to worry I'm not entertaining the idea outing anyone. Do know that your blog subjects you to being a public figure, and you are the holder of that privilege until your ego devulges such information deemed confidential, thus anything that is meant to be secret by operation of law may be breached because of your words here. <br /><br />So onto the topic; questions: <br /><br />1. Does mainstreat feminism concern itself with the medical needs and sexual health of TG/TS folks? Nope. Thus a movement is formed. <br /><br />2. Does maintream feminism concern itself with the rights of TG/TS folks? Nope. Thus such a movement is formed. <br /> <br />3. Does mainstream feminism include TG/TS people in their discussions of women's rights? Nope. Thus a such a movement is necassary. <br /><br />BlackSwanBlack Swanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10802542636695652253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-35429814448779341522012-06-24T14:44:05.333-04:002012-06-24T14:44:05.333-04:00The truth is that the TG trolls continue to domina...The truth is that the TG trolls continue to dominate, derail and ultimately control the narrative by interjecting the same old red herrings.<br /><br />What annoys me is how readily this is acquiesed to.<br /><br />What is needed is more emphasis, and focus, on a discussion, "separating the transsexual medical condition and the women born with it from the "trans" or transgender movement."Reaity Checkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13837911431745318620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-2572399777113585742012-06-22T08:11:04.292-04:002012-06-22T08:11:04.292-04:00Oh Please Explain Kathryn.
I can't wait to he...Oh Please Explain Kathryn.<br /><br />I can't wait to hear this.<br /><br />NYFAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-43083741395923393302012-06-22T00:01:34.829-04:002012-06-22T00:01:34.829-04:00"built???"built???Reaity Checkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13837911431745318620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-70314153388988039082012-06-21T21:48:13.876-04:002012-06-21T21:48:13.876-04:00Like the post, but think the comments are built, e...Like the post, but think the comments are built, except Cassandra'sKathryn Dumkehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16054997856180869508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-38074101270316311812012-06-20T07:39:16.859-04:002012-06-20T07:39:16.859-04:00I confess I am trying to figure how it is that a p...I confess I am trying to figure how it is that a post about the validity of "transfeminism" can be morphed into a discussion about abortion and whether a mother might choose to abort a transsexual child if it could be detected.<br /><br />If it were possible that transsexualism could be medically diagnosed and detected then the whole transgender conflict and conflation would surely be made non existent. Transgenders would be what they truly are I E transvestites who don't know any better. <br /><br />CassandraapeaksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-89046047895934079742012-06-20T01:31:42.259-04:002012-06-20T01:31:42.259-04:00@BlackSwan
I have no delusions of self importance...@BlackSwan<br /><br />I have no delusions of self importance BS. That would be you dipshit. I am not the one trying to get themselves in the Guinness Book of records based on an assumption based upon lies. I am not the one that is a dominatrix. I am not the one that shames women every day they go to work like you do. You are the delusional one.<br /><br />I am not the one with intellectual vanity. I do not use words like "quixotic" or "vitiated" in a failed attempt to prove myself some kind of intellectual elite. Truth be told you are just an intellectual lightweight that cannot make a living except in the manner you do.<br /><br />The argument at issue is not your argument it is transfeminism. It is typical of your immature mental state that rather than argue the point of a post you take it somewhere else in an attempt to somehow make a point about me that is untrue.<br /><br />Let me think about what you have called me. A liar, racist, transphobic, homophobic, and other sundry nastiness because of your inability to understand the simplest of concepts.<br /><br />The concept is this is a blog where I post my opinions. I believe everyone has a right to their opinions including Autumn Sandeen. Because my opinion differs from your opinion does not somehow make me any of the nasty things you have called me. I have a right to my opinions as do you but unfortunately in your case you simply regurgitate the Transgender bullshit which is actually your right because it is your opinion and your set of core beliefs.<br /><br />Unfortunately for you this is my blog and I happen to think you are a liability so for consistently trying to move the post point to something you favor your comments will now be scrutinized and banned if your comment is off topic in any way shape or form. <br /><br />Now find some mud and go to work.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17931270965200576249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-18212633650116369772012-06-19T22:07:53.792-04:002012-06-19T22:07:53.792-04:00The fact that you are here BS, would typically be ...The fact that you are here BS, would typically be an indication to me to stop coming back, but I will answer your question simply with:<br /><br />Any true TS, any WOMAN, knows exactly how to PROVE they are female in the brain.<br /><br />The last time TS's told people how, The TG movement was born and consumed them and their/our/my medical condition, made life hell for them/us, so I'm sorry but men will have to work out HOW to prove it for themselves this time (and I never said anything about scientifically).<br /><br />I <i>CAN</i> however, offer a simple solution to just about EVERYONE's (That means TS's <i>and</i> those who are TG thinking inclined like yourself) <i>stated</i> problems if you'd like? (for what good it would do, because it will never happen).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-43723300251416304752012-06-19T18:24:41.217-04:002012-06-19T18:24:41.217-04:00@Elizabeth,
Oiy she is back at it again; the quee...@Elizabeth,<br /><br />Oiy she is back at it again; the queen of quixotic notions and delusions of self-importance and intellectual vanity. Time to raise the bar on your thinking. <br /><br />The argument at issue <i>a priori</i>: Whether the access to abortion (in some countries infanticide) IS vitiated when the reason at issue is to eliminate or murder a class of person. Such a test to determine sex/gender of the brain contains within it this slippery slope argument. <br /><br />Wake up and remind your doctor to remove the urushiol from you hemroid medication. My oh my… are we crabby today?Black Swanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10802542636695652253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-57942995907006326012012-06-19T17:37:39.140-04:002012-06-19T17:37:39.140-04:00@BlackSwan
Abort a fetus? What a bullshit argume...@BlackSwan<br /><br />Abort a fetus? What a bullshit argument. What a bullshit question. Kind of makes sense when one realizes it is from BS the queen of bullshit.<br /><br />Are you in favor of abortion or are you pro-life. Only if you are pro-life is abortion infanticide. You better watch out your fellow Transgender Borg buddies will disown you for being pro-life.<br /><br />Before you ask I am opposed to abortion but do not think I personally have the right to tell someone they can not have one. It is a moral and personal decision theyb have the right to make.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17931270965200576249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-81863143481873062842012-06-19T16:59:12.344-04:002012-06-19T16:59:12.344-04:00@Newtransitioner,
What is the common goal here? ...@Newtransitioner,<br /><br />What is the common goal here? <br /><br />How do you go about "proving" that someone is male/female in the BRAIN? Where is science currently on this <i>proving ground</i>? <br /><br />AND NOW THE UGLY QUESTION; If science can prove brain sex (or gender?) and abort the fetus <i>a priori</i> would you be for infanticide?Black Swanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10802542636695652253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-39103444014589655682012-06-19T02:28:49.715-04:002012-06-19T02:28:49.715-04:00I dunno. I still think, either you is or you ain&...I dunno. I still think, either you is or you ain't. And IF you is, you DO wha needs doing, NO MATTER WHAT!<br /><br />C.I.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-11512189556201121652012-06-19T01:03:59.859-04:002012-06-19T01:03:59.859-04:00Anon, please read my comment again, carefully, inc...Anon, please read my comment again, carefully, including the part where I said:<br /><br /><i>Here is sadly where I see a BIG issue with all the discussion that goes on in these blogs with regards to separating the transsexual medical condition and the women born with it from the "trans" or transgender movement.</i><br /><br />If you are who I suspect you are, believe me, we are on the same team and share a common goal.<br /><br />My point was simply that we need to be CLEAR with the words we use, their meaning and how we convey our point.<br /><br />Trust me, I place just as much emphasis on SRS as you do, but if progress is to be made with regards to separating TSism as a medical condition then people need to be MADE to PROVE that they female in the BRAIN before they are afforded womanhood.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-1844106658037429592012-06-18T21:38:20.711-04:002012-06-18T21:38:20.711-04:00"I do not understand how someone can diagnose..."I do not understand how someone can diagnose me without knowing me" ~Steph<br /><br />LOL...It's easy! Your actions speak louder than words.<br /><br />C.I.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-54678719111852424542012-06-18T21:31:11.469-04:002012-06-18T21:31:11.469-04:00"Until well intentioned post ops cease to use..."Until well intentioned post ops cease to use SRS as a basis for validity ......, progress cannot be made." <br /><br />Why in the world should post op's need to make progress with the Trangender anyway? <br /><br />Whats in it for us... NOTHING. <br /><br />I have been post-op for over 25 years, long before the transgender came along with the onset of the genderless internet. That is where most of the transgender came from you know! <br /><br />Up till you found out you could spread your fantasy lives outside your front door, through the chat rooms on the internet, most of you would still be beating off on a saturday afternoon while the wife was at out shopping. <br /><br />That's also where you got all your information and ideas from, your CD friends who told you about how you could just tell your doctor you were transsexual, get on the mones, and head off to the clubs, where you found out how easy it was to steal the transsexual narrative and apply it to yourselves.<br /><br />Transsexuals have been going along with it for way too long. When the transgender got political is when the so called seperatist's started speaking out. By then it was a bit too late. You had organized and marginalized us, stolen our narrative, taken it for yourselves and promoted the transgender agenda to the public. <br /><br />Make progress ? I for one have no inclination to make progress with any of you. You are the ones who need to quit dragging us through the grimy mud that is the transgender way of life, where men in dresses, on hormones, and packing a penis, think that they being in the majority, should expect any of us to make progress with them...<br /><br />isn't gonna happen ...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-68876760190798788802012-06-18T15:40:06.811-04:002012-06-18T15:40:06.811-04:00Ok Steph, No problems.
By all means take what I&...Ok Steph, No problems. <br /><br />By all means take what I've written intentionally out of it's OBVIOUS context, tell yourself whatever you need to tell yourself so you can sleep soundly at night.<br /><br />In the end, all that matters is that <i>I</i> know, EVERYONE else knows, and DEEP DOWN in your heart <b><i>YOU</i></b> know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-15733008609669647812012-06-18T13:43:27.713-04:002012-06-18T13:43:27.713-04:00Stephanie said;
"Having SRS at this late sta...Stephanie said;<br /><br />"Having SRS at this late stage in my life would be stupid to do. Why? Because I wouldn't use it. My days of sex are over, have been for 20 yrs. So why? Just so I can stand in front of the mirror and look at myself. Nope, I'll just not look just like I have been doing all these yrs."<br /><br />So what you are saying is because you have no interest in sex a vagina is not useful to you?<br />Rather that is what you mean or not the fact you say "I need a vagina but..."<br />Tells me you ether are not being with us or yourself. Unless you beli8eve that women who have lost interest in sex should have their vaginas sewn shut, and I don't think that is what you mean. <br /><br />No matter Stephanie you talk in Tee-Gee code words when you say you need a vagina and have some phony excuse for not having SRS. <br /><br />Sandeen uses the same kind of excuse for not having SRS, maybe you should move to California and just have your legal sex pencil whipped to female. <br /><br />Why the fuck not it's all the rage among the Tee-Gees.<br /><br />NYFAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-23275334273445682392012-06-18T12:42:17.192-04:002012-06-18T12:42:17.192-04:00I do not understand how someone can diagnose me wi...I do not understand how someone can diagnose me without knowing me. I've had extensive therapy in my 58 yrs, each and every therapist saying I was transsexual. All of my therapists we're real people with faces, bodies, and names. For 'anonymous', faceless, nameless people to know who I am, and what I am, they must have extra powers that most people don't possess.<br /><br />"Until well intentioned post ops cease to use SRS as a basis for validity ......, progress cannot be made." ....agree<br /><br />"We do ourselves, and worse still, pre-ops more damage by conflicting the terms, and more often than not, without realizing it." .....agree<br /><br />And... "I dunno about you, but I'm a woman because of what is in my head" (and yes, I still do need SRS/ a vagina, that is PART of what is in my head) .......agree <br /><br />Having SRS at this late stage in my life would be stupid to do. Why? Because I wouldn't use it. My days of sex are over, have been for 20 yrs. So why? Just so I can stand in front of the mirror and look at myself. Nope, I'll just not look just like I have been doing all these yrs.<br /><br />As you said. I am a woman because my female brain says so. A female brain that loves the estrogen it's been on for almost 7 yrs. The thoughts of transsexualism are still there 24 hours a day, it's just not as intense, I can live with it. The goal, if you need one, is living, not SRS.<br /><br />StephanieStephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02903540438864171068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-71173831422937336782012-06-18T03:18:18.083-04:002012-06-18T03:18:18.083-04:00however steph,
if you DO want to thank me, I'...however steph, <br /><br />if you DO want to thank me, I'll take it that by doing so, you're in agreement with what I've said and that you too believe/understand that WOMAN and FEMALE are a different thing, and as such, even if you and your TG buddies <b><i>could</i></b> be considered WOMEN, you wouldn't want or need the rights females need or access to female spaces etc.<br /><br />There you have it folks!<br /><br />Problem solved, they've seen the light!!!<br /><br />On another note: I see no problem with "trans-feminisim". it is a bit of a word play, and the context in which it is used or taken is incorrect, but in essence the term itself I feel is accurate.<br /><br /><b>"trans"</b>: (<i>accross from/opposite to</i>) -Feminisim<br /><br />so in essense it's just another word for Masculism(Masclinism).<br /><br />IE Men's rights.<br /><br />Which in my small mind would kinda makes the term itself a bit of an oxymoron<br /><br />however, maybe we should all jump on board if these men want equal rights for men and women... maybe they're about to address equal pay and the glass ceiling.<br /><br />Who knows right?... we can all dream.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-40430659413732288462012-06-17T18:06:07.514-04:002012-06-17T18:06:07.514-04:00The reality is most people treat the recognition o...The reality is most people treat the recognition of sex and gender as they do the recognition of art: "I know it when I see it." Perception is reality until someone says or does something to poke a hole it it. Everything else is commentary.<br /><br />- an old auntyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-32539142607477251352012-06-17T16:59:40.168-04:002012-06-17T16:59:40.168-04:00I want no thanks from the likes of you stephanie, ...I want no thanks from the likes of you stephanie, so please save it.<br /><br />Did you read my comment carefully?<br /><br />I'm confident the women here would have and unlike you, would have realised my purpose was to prevent us helping <b>NON</b>-ops like yourself by (without realizing it) perpetuating the TG cycle due to confalting terms incorrectly <i>ourselves</i>.<br /><br />The terms WOMAN (the social sex, or as you would have us believe INCORRECTLY <i>"gender"</i>) and FEMALE are NOT and DO NOT discribe the same thing.<br /><br />HOWEVER, that does NOT mean I think you or your buddies qualify as IETHER of them.<br /><br />Maybe you should take a read of my blog if you think I'm so great.<br /><br />Have a great day!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com