tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post6310098654079310150..comments2023-04-26T23:19:46.504-04:00Comments on Notes from the T side: So, Why Am I Supposed to Feel Guilty?Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931270965200576249noreply@blogger.comBlogger53125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-19804940031351589672013-01-09T18:43:44.019-05:002013-01-09T18:43:44.019-05:00http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joy-ladin/gender-tra...http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joy-ladin/gender-transition_b_2442460.html<br /><br />Might want to read Ladin's next and ongoing attempt to rewrite history.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-18574732482209008032012-12-13T05:02:37.605-05:002012-12-13T05:02:37.605-05:00Oh for the record? (and back on topic) You are in ...Oh for the record? (and back on topic) You are in the wrong by the TG mind because being young and not readable as male... you did not offer yourself as fodder for the men in dresses to hide behind. You were not there for them to out, and to then point to as being "just like them!" That is your sin Liz! That is why they are angry with you! After all it is just one bit happy family, with the real women on the bottom as God (male) intended!Miz Know-It-Allhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12573490462316887852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-40529610977800093142012-12-11T18:13:16.679-05:002012-12-11T18:13:16.679-05:00@Anonymous December 11, 2012 3:12 PM:
This isn...@Anonymous December 11, 2012 3:12 PM:<br /><br />This isn't an argument for for male privilege, a rebuttalable presumption. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. If so no such privilege exist in the context you mention. <br /><br />Google "Gabi Garcia BJJ" <br /><br />http://www.bjjheroes.com/bjj-fighters/gabrielle-garcia-bjj<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jJe7Zg8EO5I <br /><br />Is she using performance enhancing drugs to gain an upper hand? Busted for double standard: Ok for Gabi not OK for Monika. <br /><br />GraceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-26671927803207343012012-12-11T17:55:44.048-05:002012-12-11T17:55:44.048-05:00I am not barred from any site Stephanie, I can pos...I am not barred from any site Stephanie, I can post anywhere I wish, I choose not to post to trannie sites because of the lack of acceptance of my views. You Tee-Gees want acceptance from the general population but you are not willing to be accepting of those who disagree with your view on life. <br /><br />You go anywhere else on the Internet outside of your Tee-Gee ghetto and try and convince normal people a woman can have a penis, you will be laughed off the site. The majority of the men and women on the planet qualify male and female by their genitals. When they hear of a man with a 38D chest and a penis they call it what it is a freak. <br /><br />You come here and try and pass this bullcrap that the rest of the world somehow accepts you, what a joke. <br />Some of us were born in the morning but it wasn't yesterday morning, give me a break dude. <br /><br />NYFAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-36364826871377648052012-12-11T17:06:12.119-05:002012-12-11T17:06:12.119-05:00Dear Elizabeth:
"[S]he hates me..." Do...Dear Elizabeth:<br /><br />"[S]he hates me..." Do you want me to hate you? What gives you that crazy idea? Is this some kind of transference or autosuggestion? Should you feel guilty or shameful? No. Being legitimate as a women does not require one to blend in as a women based on the idealism of patriarchal definitions. You are either lucky to be passable or not. Those that were out; either by choice or circumstance of transition have done more for young transitioners than those that choose an undisclosed life. The undisclosed ("Stealth") life helps no-one. It is a selfish choice. You were not selfish and helped as much as you could--you've done enough, and should be commended for it. Do you feel you have more to do? <br /><br />In your blog you have spoke of a 6'3" transitioner who committed suicide long before my time and you watched her psychologically deteriorate if I recall from your blog correctly. This was at a time when pretty and passible = legitimacy or survivability. Do you think she should hate you for having something she wanted? Do you think she was envious of you? Please forgive my potentially feckless comment: Do you want ME to hate YOU for HER? <br /><br />If I listened to that Old-Think (OT) I'd be dead. This whole blog is still infected with that OT. If you can't be a pencil to write someone's happiness then be a nice eraser to remove their sadness. That OT said to me that I would never be successful. I worked my ass off and had lots of help from others who supported me, yet it was on me to help-myself. I'm very blessed with my results; a Taleb "BlackSwan" happened. <br /><br />Have you seen the movie "God's and Monsters?" Ian McKellen quite profoundly portrays a man that transfers his guilt and shame of the past into his present and the dysfunction of living in the closet. Frankly Elizabeth I don't know you well enough to hate you. However your blog appears to me to be a search for legitimacy for your legacy. I represent something to you and you just don't come out and say it. I created an Eve, I created a Monster, but didn't expect the results to be what they are--Monstrum: Devine portent of misfortune; an omen. I defied misfortune that took your 6'3" friends life--that's my legacy. <br /><br /> Now I have a chance to finish law school; made some good coin in my travels. Saw the world, yet I have a tempting chance to obtain what I've always wanted; what do I do? Two doors--both very jealous mistresses (metaphor). Both professions mutually exclusive. Filled with ego's. One feeds my heart, while the other my intellect. I can entertain my muse with both, I can rage against the dying of the light as my friend Tony Serra suggested to me, becoming a Jedi of Jurisprudence. Or an artist. Both will require a degree of "outness" eschewing the OT. What to do?Black Swanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10802542636695652253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-23329918622241274492012-12-11T15:12:41.236-05:002012-12-11T15:12:41.236-05:00Here's one story that will make your head turn...Here's one story that will make your head turn and scream male privilege<br /><br />GLAAD celebrates Women’s Junior College Basketball player Gabrielle Ludwig: because He’s a 6 foot 8, 230 pound, 50 year-old Man<br /><br />http://gendertrender.wordpress.com/2012/12/06/glaad-celebrates-womens-junior-college-basketball-player-gabrielle-ludwig-because-hes-a-6-foot-8-230-pound-50-year-old-man/<br /><br />http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/12/06/gabrielle-ludwig-transgender-basketball-player-debut_n_2250548.htmlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-37974427561568768812012-12-11T13:10:53.671-05:002012-12-11T13:10:53.671-05:00Funny, there are more nuts on this page than Mr. P...Funny, there are more nuts on this page than Mr. Peanut owns. Count 'em. Then count the real world. Seems your in the minority by millions. Says a lot, doesn't it. Your bared from respectable sites. Could it be your crazy? ....Must be. Get together and take a picture. Looney goons all in one place. It will be epic! ......Poke 'em with a stick and watch 'em buzz. So much fun!Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02903540438864171068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-41115228017874819662012-12-11T08:21:39.410-05:002012-12-11T08:21:39.410-05:00Stephanie
How maie of you to order the end of a ...Stephanie <br /><br />How maie of you to order the end of a discussion on a blog that doesn't belong to you. <br /><br /><br />NYFAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-70391655169907934862012-12-11T05:30:02.896-05:002012-12-11T05:30:02.896-05:00Curious isn't it? How since basic PhotoShop st...Curious isn't it? How since basic PhotoShop started to come pre-installed on all computers these days that every single one of these "started but will never get past go," very very late transtioning retiree's has the complexion of a twenty something?<br /><br />As for compassion? I'd be happy to show some... if these clowns would simply own up to being men! This really is an either or situation ya know! If you are female and you are going to transition then do it! Seven years "in transtion" and surgery is no where near happening? Time to move on! Or as my Mother would have said it "Shit or get off the pot!" Being the demure southern belle she was these home spun homilies of her's were all the more pointed!<br />Anyway... As the rad fems are happy to point out, we all know the biology... which is why it is all the more galling when having done all that can humanly be done to correct the wrong, the narrative is stolen, twisted then spit back at us and the world so some old fart can hide from being a dude who likes to play dress up... I mean putting on women's clothing and playing girl? Ewwww! That might make him... I dunno? Queer? Can't have that now can we?Miz Know-It-Allhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12573490462316887852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-70086799060071043002012-12-10T23:17:07.386-05:002012-12-10T23:17:07.386-05:00Hell hath no fury ..Hell hath no fury ..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-75292056232326175092012-12-10T21:27:54.798-05:002012-12-10T21:27:54.798-05:00Come on Liz! Show a little compassion! Why not o...Come on Liz! Show a little compassion! Why not offer some "feminization" tips on how to fix that gawd awful paint job on sweet Stevie's face. It looks like something out of the Walking Dead.<br /><br />As for the hair, the poor guy is doing the best he can with what he's got.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-1818091760424754612012-12-10T20:30:57.852-05:002012-12-10T20:30:57.852-05:00When it is NOT justified on the other hand, is a V...When it is NOT justified on the other hand, is a VERY different matter/responseVan Burenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10771368775037115526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-83657082222656194962012-12-10T20:29:06.244-05:002012-12-10T20:29:06.244-05:00Women DO show compassion, in my opinion/experience...Women DO show compassion, in my opinion/experience. <br /><br />When it is justified.Van Burenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10771368775037115526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-52115700682712837812012-12-10T19:57:54.567-05:002012-12-10T19:57:54.567-05:00"Women show compassion."
Some do. Some ..."Women show compassion."<br /><br />Some do. Some don't. Your stereotypes of women are predictable transvestite drivel.<br /><br />- an old auntyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-5216190589931021682012-12-10T14:37:24.787-05:002012-12-10T14:37:24.787-05:00@Stephanie
Well saying you are "as as dumb a...@Stephanie<br /><br />Well saying you are "as as dumb as a fence post" is not a literal comment but in your case it might be. <br /><br />You dumb shit I have read your blog, as in all of it, and you have never saved a penny towards SRS nor have you ever worked towards it. You are so addled by the damage done to your brain from decades of drug and alcohol abuse you cannot remember what you posted in the last day.<br /><br />ROFLMAO. Ironically I still do dilate but the only place your dildo goes is up your ass and I bet your wife enjoys doing that to you but then of course you are just living the "female life" for the last 7 years.<br /><br />There is nothing like an argument with illiterate white trailer trash from Arkansas although I might be putting down trailer trash by including you within them as a group.<br /><br />Just for your addled brain dipshit "End of Discussion" was also not literal but was a statement that you and your dipshit wife are both too illiterate and stupid to argue with but since you insist on it lets have a go at it.<br /><br />By the way even Trump does a better comb over than you due with your male pattern baldness.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17931270965200576249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-12007539817101537462012-12-10T13:29:57.365-05:002012-12-10T13:29:57.365-05:00"End of Discussion" Now take your ball a..."End of Discussion" Now take your ball and go home and sulk like the little kid you are. <br /><br />I've done my best to achieve SRS. You've done your best to put me down. Shove that dildo in a little deeper. It hasn't reached the spot that gives you the knowledge to be a woman. Or did you stop using it a long time ago. That would explain a lot! Silly twit!Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02903540438864171068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-56336838069347630242012-12-10T03:39:46.441-05:002012-12-10T03:39:46.441-05:00Call it whatever you'd like Kathryn (if it hel...Call it whatever you'd like Kathryn (if it helps you get to sleep at night), it is still the truth, and one thing that is plain to see from what can be found in blog land (too anyone NOT kidding themselves), is that the truth more often than not <i>HURTS!</i>Van Burenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10771368775037115526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-36289047317040749892012-12-10T01:03:47.032-05:002012-12-10T01:03:47.032-05:00"Asses, all asses! I have more respect for my..."Asses, all asses! I have more respect for myself than to sell myself on the street." -stephanie<br /><br />Actually, if you wanted something bad enough, yes you would! If you were hungry enough you would eat from a garbage can. History shows this to be true over and over. So obviously, you didn't want SRS bad enough.<br /><br />Now, I don't care for all this ganging up on folks. Stephanie done what stephanie could and she has every right to stay with the wife if she wants to. That she did it for the right or wrong reason matters not a bit to me, nor should it to anyone else. She is the one that has to live with it and I don't see any reason to pillary her. I think all this vitriol toward her is very bad manners. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-53299151586973489122012-12-09T21:43:28.568-05:002012-12-09T21:43:28.568-05:00@ Buren
"there are a great many people Kathr...@ Buren<br /><br />"there are a great many people Kathryn, who's life is NOT what they SAY or THINK (tell themselves) it is."<br /><br />Indeed, but that is trite is it not?Kathryn Dumkehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16054997856180869508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-30537287333169101532012-12-09T18:53:20.546-05:002012-12-09T18:53:20.546-05:00@Steph and wife: "Take your bitterness and r...@Steph and wife: "Take your bitterness and regret elsewhere. You do not belong here. You are not one of us".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-61033349301014411352012-12-09T18:14:32.106-05:002012-12-09T18:14:32.106-05:00@Stephanie and Stephanie's wife
Your husband ...@Stephanie and Stephanie's wife<br /><br />Your husband and spouse has continually commented on issues he has not one single clue about. The simple statement that being born transsexual is some kind of selfish desire is beneath contempt. Transvestism is a selfish desire sweetie and based on both of your comments I would gather neither of you is the brightest light in the universe.<br /><br />Your husband can dress to his heart's content for all I care but he is not transsexual and never has been because one is born transsexual and is not some selfish desire. <br /><br />Now go away and stop making a fool out of yourself because you husband does a good enough job for both of you.<br />Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17931270965200576249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-10234176511601860422012-12-09T14:25:04.513-05:002012-12-09T14:25:04.513-05:00there are a great many people Kathryn, who's l...there are a great many people <i>Kathryn</i>, who's life is NOT what they SAY or THINK (tell themselves) it is.Van Burenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10771368775037115526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-60814929889380753992012-12-09T12:37:06.487-05:002012-12-09T12:37:06.487-05:00@ Anon 2:11 PM, (and you too Steph!)
I've simp...@ Anon 2:11 PM, (and you too Steph!)<br />I've simply had it up to here with these grandiose numbers y'all toss about like candy as the main reason for your "I can'ts!" So, rather than impinge upon Liz's good humor and put them all down here as one long winded reply. I went the extra mile and broke it down line by line for ya over on MKIA...<br /><br />But for the record? Anon? Your numbers are totally whack!<br />Injectable HRT from an online compounding pharmacy, $12.OO a month, (this is what it cost me out of pocket no insurance needed!)<br />FFS in Thailand? $10,000.00 to $30,000.00 tops!<br />SRS in Thailand? $5,000.00 to $14,000.00 tops!<br />Counseling? Sliding scale at a Teaching University or a Community Program... $0.00 to whatever you can reasonably afford like say $10.00 to $40.00 a session!<br /><br />There are many many less expensive and actually better options than going to the high dollar celebrity docs! Which means that if you really want it, you can have the full monty for less than the cost of a new car!<br /><br />So now! What have you got to say about all these reasons why YOU... "Can't???"<br /><br />MKIAMiz Know-It-Allhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12573490462316887852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-10570750838704961032012-12-09T12:06:35.676-05:002012-12-09T12:06:35.676-05:00you dont know me . I am anything but submissive. A...you dont know me . I am anything but submissive. And Steph is certainly no man.And hasnt been for a long time, I have no desire to get into alot of crap with you. But you do have to admit not everybody is the same, and only you know how you feel. So everyone has their own tribulations about their transitions.Every human being has feelings, so who are you to say your feelings are better than anyone elses. Not everyone will agree with 100% with everybody, but everyone is entitled to their own personal feelings.I love my spouse and that is all that matters. Not what you think or anybody else for that matter.I just dont agree with your line of thinking, and I am sure I am not the only one. Stephs wife<br />132Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02903540438864171068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-944795231126319421.post-14683558634256174062012-12-09T10:18:33.813-05:002012-12-09T10:18:33.813-05:00"Also Steph has been living the female life f..."Also Steph has been living the female life for7 years now full time."<br /><br />This is so sad. It is the subtle affirmation that Steph is not what she lived for the last seven years.Kathryn Dumkehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16054997856180869508noreply@blogger.com